“Who can read these girls, and ladies’ minds, for it is their kavonos that are the deteminant.”
Nope. Doing the wrong thing with pure intentions is still wrong. Just like if someone would want to introduce organ music on Shabbos in Shuls even with the purest of intentions it would be wrong.
But when night becomes day and bassar chazir becomes kosher then all bets are off, עין לא ראה אלוקים זולתך