AviK: Before you try to sound knowledgeable, make sure you are. לשבר את האוזן is the correct way of saying it as is prevalent in all the Rishonim. Furthermore, it is spelled with a sin not a shin, and is tantamount to saying לסבור.
What you both are missing is that Hashem is תכלית הפשיטות, what that means is that He has no will. If you would take the time to actually learn the Morah in full, not in snippets, you will see that the Rambam actually says the exact opposite. There is no concept of “Middot” with Hashem. אינו יודע במדה שחוץ ממנו. Middos are an extension of a person not the person itself, Hashem has no extensions, and therefore, when we say that we cannot know Hashem, that includes whatever Middos you want to attribute to him.
As the Navi says: כי לא מחשבותי מחשבותיכם therefore there are no adjectives we can use even for HIs so called MIddos.