UncleSamSW,
“its only a Grandchild and there will be a lot more Grandchildren in the Future to come who will get married”
Thank G-d, my children are like lights in my parents’ eyes. And please G-d may I have grandchildren and the ability to treasure each and every one of them and the strength to dance at their weddings.
“nobody belives when the Rebbe is dancing for an half an hour back and foreward with a gartel or without”
I can’t even figure out what this means.
“My personal opinion is: these Rebbes Chassunas and Simchas are ONLY FOR ENTERTAINMENT”
I think your “ONLY” is insulting, but you’re absolutely right that much of the wedding pomp is for entertainment. If you have a problem with that, take it up with the Torah. It’s a tremendous mitzva to bring simcha to a chosson and kallah. And for a rebbe to include as many of his chassidim as possible in the simcha helps to increase their connection with him, which I believe is a vital part of chassidus.
Go be cynical on your own cheshbon and leave other people alone.