1)we all know that everything Hashem does is for the good, so with this being the case we all have a job & test of Having bitachon & emunah in Hashem & accepting the test that this tragedy is for the good (perhaps its time for us to accept the wakeup call for all of klal yisroel to do Teshuva together as one loving nation) if you need help in passing this test, then make yourself a daily learning session of sefer Chovos Halevovos (duties of the heart) to help bring you higher in faith & trust in Hashem & it will also bring you closer to our loving father Hashem the king of kings & ruler of the world.
2) “the Hardest Mitzva” a big tzaddik (i forgot his name) said at the end of his life when he was asked this question his hardest was: not thinking of Hashem or Torah while using the facilities & relieving himself.
May Hashem give us all hatzlacha to accept all the tests we are given throughout our lives & work on passing all nisyonos because each test a person passes raises him & brings him 1 step/level closer to Hashem until s/he has reached the level & ready to be welcomed into the true world above-“where this special chosson & kalla are now”-from this temporary world we are in now which is just a path for everyone to take to the true world above.