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18MinuteMatzah, What you’ve read so far is typical man to man banter. If he talks to you like that, walk away.
Seriously, you won’t find what you’re looking for hear. I suggest you have a heart to heart with your LOR (Local Orthodox Rebbetzin) to set up on the path.
Wishing you all the best, and you should find your basherte quickly and easily.