zahavasdad,
but a smart parent knows when to give in and when to give the kid some freedom.
I agree 100%. I try not to be judgemental of other families, however, so I shy away from saying that so-and-so an issue (e.g., wearing a hat) is objectively unreasonable. Another family may think you are unreasonable for not letting your kid fry up bacon in your pan.
Have a wonderful Shabbos!