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1. I know people who have seen this Chilul hashem with the soldiers with their own eyes. Just because you didnt see them, doesnt mean it didnt happen. I dont know if its alot or a little, but if I would guess, its on the smaller amount
2, When a rogue MO rabbi gives a mazal tov to an “Alternative” couple , Some in the charedi community blame the entire OU and RCA for this. Just because some claims to be MO and appears to do it under the MO community doesnt mean they endorse such things (This point was made to compare to the “All Charedim do it”)
3. The charedim do know whose these people are and in general the charedi population is told of the evils of the army , When you tell everyone how evil it is, there are some unhindged people who will go to far (Just like telling them all “Alternative people” are evil it just takes one meshugganah who is unhindged to go to a parade and stab and kill someone