Reply To: Cognitive Dissonance: Marrying a Smoker.

There are cases where people stop smoking, and never turn back.

I ended up telling the shadchanit that I didn’t want to be paired with a smoker. She was very receptive to my needs –Baruch Hashem, what a relief!

RebYidd23: Of course someone who smokes or quit smoking deserves happiness. Some people don’t mind, but since I do, it would not make sense for a former or current smoker and I to be paired up.