Shopping613 – this happens to regular people like you who follow their Rabbis. Your Rabbi isn’t a Navi who could know everything about everyone. Even people who at “fum” do this. The best defense is to get information about the boy from people who are on your side. Who ate your family and friends. And you have to know how to ask the right questions to get them to be open with you. Bc many yes even frum people don’t want to be the bearer of bad news.
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