“You know what’s wrong with shidduchim (and marriages)? The fact that some guys think buying a girl a soda from Duane Reade and asking her if she would prefer to do something else instead of walking is considered “babying”.”
you are looking for an argument, listen to what i am saying, the girls comment showed interest only in these matters, i’m not saying he shouldn’t be a mentch and you know it, but the whole date shouldn’t be about did he do this or that