Reply To: Natural-Hair Sheitels Are Assur

encourage you to do whatever you feel you must do for yourself (along with healthy input from your rav and spouse, not necessarily in that order).

Why should anyone do what they “feel” they must? It shouldn’t be based on feelings. And why are you uncertain that a Rov’s input should come before one’s spouse’s desire? This is a halachic issue that a halachic personality should certainly take precedence.