DM: nobody here has defended wearing “provocative” or “enticing” shaitels. The same way you wouldn’t defend provocative or enticing tichels or snoods.
So half of your argument is what we’d call “straw man”.
The other half, that natural hair shaitels are always assur, has been shown to have more than “highly respected talmid chachum” disagree with.
I think you need to understand what you quoted earlier – “It is a new breach of the boundaries of mesorah” – was true perhaps when it was uncommon. It’s clearly not a breach in any boundaries today when probably a majority of frum women wear natural hair shaitels.
I think you need to calm down, take a deep breath, and realize that those who do wear natural shaitels are following the mainstream psak accepted in klal Yisroel, as decided by gedolei poskim every bit as big as those you quote, that they’re 100% muttar.