Reply To: Being Mekarev an Intermarried Jew

Goq, it is very sinful for the non-Jew too. (Remember Cozbi?)

ubiq, yytz is suggesting it is okay for him to remain with her.

yytz, But we don’t demand they leave, even if they ask us what they should do — that’s up to the individual.

Absolutely incorrect. When asked we most certainly do tell him to leave. If a new BT asked if he should quit his Shabbos job will you suggest not advising him to stop working on Shabbos since “that’s up to the individual”? Completely absurd. Especially if he asks!

Chareidi butei dinim absolutely do not convert intermarried spouses.

Avi, most of the Soviet “conversions” are a farce. A Beis Din in Eretz Yisroel officially ruled as such a number of years ago.