DY: “LU, I think the two threads are very similar, and that listing a bunch of posters in a positive way (want to meet, praise, etc.) is likely to cause hurt feelings.”
DY, I hear your point on that. I happen to think that there is a difference between the two threads, although I can see why someone might disagree.
But that wasn’t my main point, and that’s not why I was asking for an apology. I hear your “tzad” although I am not sure if I agree. My point was that I explained why I did not do what you and Ubiquitin accused me of doing, and why under the circumstances, I felt that it was necessary to act as a did (davka in order to prevent people from being hurt).