Joseph- in my former dating experiences there were plenty of times that
the guy did not clean his car…
or it reeked of cigarette smoke…
or he drove like a maniac and I was scared for my life…
or the AC leaked on my feet so I could not put them down in front of me, and when I said something, he turned the AC lower only to turn it up again shortly afterwards…
or the OOT guy who had absolutely no plans for the evening, and turns to me, where should we go? Then he proceeds to tell me about all the wonderful tourist places he had been to that day…
or the guy who calls me an hour after he was supposed to meet me to explain that he will be late since someone in shul asked him to help him with something, and this was a date that had already been rescheduled after he previously canceled it just a few hours before it was supposed to take place.
or the one who started yelling at me for being nosy when i innocently asked him to tell me about his siblings…
or the one who interrogated me and argued about how I could possibly be a good mother, and then when he asked me out again at the end of the date, and I (diplomatically) said that I have to think about it and rather go through the shadchan, he yelled at me for wasting his time.
or…well you get the idea.
So yes, a girl can have a bad date.