dovrosenbaum,
It’s like most other things in life. Men get the short end of the stick.
Ugh, more whining. Sorry you have to wake up early to say shelo asani isha, had to learn Torah on Sundays in high school, or whatever else makes you feel aggrieved.
The girl sits there, orders food and doesn’t pay,
If this really bothers you, then let her know that she’ll need to pay for her food. Nobody’s forcing you to pay for anything.
and generally could care less about the guy; she cares about his looks, his status or parnassa, etc.
Seems like you couldn’t care less about “the gal” either. You might get better results from your dating if you didn’t start out hating her guts because she’s female.