Mamajun -Dear Health, thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience. Pushing wouldn’t work even if I were inclined to do it (and I’m not). Did your OTD kids talk to you about how they feel/why they choose to abandon Judaism (as you and I know it)? Our adult child doesn’t want to discuss it with us; maybe that’s better, I don’t know”
Because of the divorce – they were following their mother.
Let me ask you something – does your child have anything to do with you?
If yes, don’t discuss religion with him/her.
If there’s an opportunity to show Frum people in a good light – that can be presented.