Here;s the thing about love you can fall out of love with a friend or a spouse but to fall out of love of your child is to chas vshalom spit in the face of HKBH, you can be disappointed in them, you can be afraid for them, you can daven for them, you can hope for them, my father did not love me in fact he rarely let an opportunity pass to let me know how much he disliked and even hated me. Love of a child is not a choice its an obligation, you created a human being not a robot a human makes choices has free will you don’t have to approve of their choices but you must love them that is your promise to Hashem when you become a parent.
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