“I think it does effect us. If i see a non jew eating a cheesburger, it is totaly fine with me. I grew a certain definition of marriage and consider it normal. Despite the world changing their mind, for the most part my own personal outlook isn’t changed, ”
I dont follow, you Goyim eat cheeseburgers we dont, goyim have 2 men marry we dont.
Its simple as that.
Granted there are other concerns such as being forced to participate/cater/etc such ceremonies that are real concerns. But as for what two Goyim do I’m not sure why we get so worked up over it.
And spare me the midrash about the mabul, The Torah says the mabul came because of chamas, I’ll believe those who are so worried about another mabul coming when they spend even half as much time condemning chamas as they do about this