When I lived in Lakewood, for clothes shopping I went to Kohl’s in Howell (just outside Lakewood).
Disclaimer: I’m not much of a shopper.
For ice cream, there is:
1. Yismach – across from the library on Lexington between 4rth and 5th
2. Sprinkles – already mentioned by Tobs -in the Shoprite shopping plaza (which is now the Gourmet Glatt shopping plaza)
3. California Swirls – 214 Clifton (it’s actually frozen yogurt, not ice cream).
For bagels, I liked Four Corners Bagels (already mentioned by Streekgeek).