“Insistence that you, a woman, have the ability, and the authority to pasken a shaila for someone you don’t know and are not able to have a basic conversation with is frightening. People need to know that that is not how halacha works.
Once again, An appropriate response would have been that you are of the opinion that…but that she needs to check with her rabbi or a posek.”
I hope you realize that every time you make a decision regarding whether or not to post something you are poskening. I wonder why you think that you are qualified to do so? Have you asked a sheilah regarding whether or not you are allowed to do so?