Reply To: MORE shidduchim 👰🤵👰🤵👰🤵

Sorry for not getting back earlier was busy the past few days…
Part of the question was about people going out with the mindset that you’re going to marry THIS girl or guy. Most people do not fall in love at first site or even after ten dates (even if they think they do it’s not real love..contrary to the west’s’ opinion…) also being able to “stand” or “talk” to each other goes without saying but liking every single thing that he or she does or, that because you like the same food (insert any other example here) your marriage is going to be perfect. Marriage is not easy (huge understatement) it’s a work in progress, you get out what you put in…(insert cliche here). THEREFORE if you have similar hashkafas, are holding in similar places in life and understand that nobody is perfect then why not get married to him or her?
” I always tell shadchanim that personality is more important to me than hashkafa.”
LU: Why? (unless that’s what you mean by personality)