Winnie, living among many Yidden and less goyim is a plus/benefit to seek rather than living among more goyish culture/less Yiddushe culture. The ruchniyos benefits of Lakewood/Boro Park are greater than that of Norfolk.
Avi, the guy making $200k and complaining is simply a kvetcher who wants more luxuries. Forging luxuries, $200k can very easily get by in life.