RS: I didn’t say you should “dump” him. I said wait 6 months then reevaluate.
Those 6 months will allow some time for both of you to reach closer to your respective potentials (it’s almost morning Motzei Pesach – I hope I’m forgiven for this most likely non-word) and then see if you’ve gotten closer or further to a meeting of the minds and neshomos.
If waiting 6 months equals pushing him away — for a guy that supposedly is willing to change his life for you (stay in learning etc.) — then I have a “news flash” for you: He’s not Mr. Right, you’ve simply come across as easy picking.
Good luck!