btw, I’m still super-impressed that you are self-aware and introspective enough to realize that the question exists. Most people would have assumed that they were a first-hand witness and wouldn’t even have realized that they only viewed things the way they did because they were mekabel l”h.
That is one of the biggest dangers of l”h. I myself have been a victim of that. Someone had been mekabel motzi shem ra about me, and then interpreted something I said in light of the motzi shem ra he had been mekabel about me and didn’t even realize it. (I didn’t know about the motzi shem ra until afterwards and by then I was unable to get him to understand that he had misunderstood me because he had been mekabel MSR about me).