rebshidduch
wow its just like hearing myselft talking!!
im so not used to it.
about whoever might got offended i have a correction:
[i actually wanted to put it in my 1st message but forgot]
IM FROM ISRAEL, and here in israel things are very different, a guy who even put the tip of his nose out of the yeshiveh, even if its for a realy low precentage of his day [a degree alongside yeshiveh], concidered Muktze!!! just the way the guy who opened this thread described himself…its the same Hoomreh here :\ thats why i used this example, although i know in USA its not as much Chommur. just was talking about getting a good Shidduch against the odds :).
btw, if the language in my messages isnt good enough too -now u know the reason 😉