Reb Shidduch – I may be wrong, but my impression of Ner Yisroel is probably more “chilled” than what he has in mind (judging from the smartphone which is “tagged of course” – in Ner Yisroel I don’t know if it would be tagged, and it certainly wouldn’t be “of course”).
Gr8Bochur – When you say “open minded”, do you have anything against “yeshivish”, or do you just mean you want a more relaxed warm environment that the standard yeshivas?