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Rebshidduch- think very carefully.
He may have just been pointing out (correctly) that you are not ready to marry a full-time Lakewood guy. When he said you should marry a more modern guy, he may not have been referring to himself. And if what you wrote is accurate, then he asked you to be friends and not to date towards marriage, which is a huge difference.
I still think you should seriously think over the things I and others here have said.