aidel_maidel
Member
iyid- good for you that you agreed to continue with him!!! i say the shidduch crisis has alot to do with people turning down dates for the dumbest reasons;)
POSTED 52 MINUTES AGO #
What if the girl or guy is ten years older, or he spills tomato sauce on you during the date…. And the shadchan tells you, maybe he was nervous, give it another try…. Who has the dumbest reason here… The dater or the shadchan…. Lol. I dated many years ago.., however some of the issues today still are occuring along with more larger sophisticated ones…. The question is, is the shidduch crisis due to pple rejecting based on age differentiation… What is the problem with having large gaps in marriage?? B”h my husband and I are close in age…. But is it that terrible if the girl is say 25 and the boy is 22 or if the guy is a hefty amount of years older what could be the ramifications that a couple could potentially come to based on these types of factors???