I didn’t go on for a while but I wanted to clarify a few things.
The story of the girl getting redt to her brother…
She is one of 18 and had a brother dating at the same time as her. She has a very common last name (her husband has the same last name as her maiden name). A shadchan called her mother and said I have a boy for your daughter, she says the last name and where they live. The mother was like that’s funny cuz I checked out all the whatever’s in that area. Somehow they realized that it was her brother.