Reply To: Inaccurate things we learned as kids

Shlishi- i love the R’ Chaim writes in his seforim bit. Which sefer has he written on this topic i would love to see it. as a matter of fact i am sending someone to him tomorrow to ask the mekor on all of these things.

There is no question eliyahu hanavi comes to the Seder (that was never up for discussion) we know he comes but we don’t open the door for him.

As for women drinking from havdalah I’ve never seen it. Just because i heard it doesn’t mean there is a mekor.