Hats off to any bochur like 2.0
I agree (theoretically) but you have to do extensive research to find out why people did the things that they did. I do not think a bochur like 2.0 (assuming he’s really legit) should lose out on a good girl c”v but a lot of perspective girls / parents do not have the time / patience / wherewithall (or trust?) to go for it…