oy nebach-so what you’re saying is we can change the name of this thread to: is a boy looking to date a girl or a well secured (stocked for 6+years) bank account?
I am so not a fan of cynicism-can’t we all just change the system and demand better from the yeshivos, our bochurim, and the overall sense that money is the answer to being able to pursue a kollel lifestyle at the outset? (and please don’t tell me that koheles says “v’hakesef ya’aneh es ha’ kol…..)
yes i know this topic has been regurgitated in other threads, but we don’t have to continue in the path of “well this is what’s normal and expected”. Normal is an overrated virtue when it comes to this.