I think you misunderstood me.
I’m not trying to “make Hashem what I think He should be.” Rather, I am comparing my conception of Hashem- which is formed from Torah study- to this reality of frum men who ignore my greetings, and they don’t seem to match. The God I know does not want this to happen. I know you’re going to jump on me again for using the phrase “the God I know”, but you have to understand that I’m starting from the Torah. I’m not starting with my own “modern attitudes” and looking for ways to fit them in with God. I have spent much of my life studying Torah and based on this study- and not on anything else- I think that what these men do is wrong.