I meant this one:
I’m not sure which one you started, but I do remember this topic being discussed before – I guess that must have been the thread you started.
To answer your second question, as long as he is young enough for me to go out with him, I would probably call him a guy. Since I call myself a girl, anyone I could go out with has to be a guy or a boy. I mean if I’m a girl, I can’t go out with men.