ZD – you are saying two completely different things in the same breath.
First you are saying:
“I would say I dont care about this averiah”
Then you are saying:
“And if you want to say Such and Such a Rav, says its an Averiah to tell people, I would tell you, that rav is wrong and you need to get another Rabbi.”
First you are saying that it’s an aveirah but you don’t care. Then you are saying that it can’t be an aveirah and the Rav you asked must have been mistaken, so you will ask someone else.
Those are two completely different things. The first thing is a serious problem. The second thing is fine (or it can be depending on several factors). I have done the second thing myself at least twice in my life, albeit only in certain specific circumstances.
Do you see the difference?