Reply To: Confusing halacha, minhag, chumra and shtus*

“You said earlier that you don’t get insulted by halachah discussion. I guess that changed? ” (DY)

You’re assumption wasn’t part of a halachic discussion. It was unnecessary and imho did not bring any light to halacha. Instead it put down LU.

“According to the facts you presented, it was simply poor time management, and you would be like a shocheiach.” (DY)

She did not present the facts to be poskened by a rav. You’re not even her rav. If you were a rav, I doubt that you would throw out such judgments. It wasn’t your place and LU doesn’t need to go into the details.

One could even say that putting more out here in the CR was a breach of her boundaries and inappropriate to bring what happens in her home of public nature.