DY – it was my own – that’s why I said to ask a sheilah. When it comes to missing davening, such a person would be considered “ones” and not a “maizid” and t/f would be able to do tashlumim.
Maybe the halacha is different by candlelighting? Do you have a reason for thinking that in such a case a person is considered shogeg and not ones?
I just reread your post – your assumption that it’s not “ones” is that it’s preventable. I don’t think that’s true. But I would be interested in hearing why you think that is the case.