Reply To: A posek can tell you who to marry

I didn’t say it doesn’t mean to struggle, I said it doesn’t mean to struggle with Hashem. ?? doesn’t always mean Hashem, e.g. ?? ???? ?????.

I also didn’t say life doesn’t have its struggles, they’re just not against Hashem, they’re against the yetzer hora. I don’t see how my words can be taken as denying the concept of bechirah.

I also think the last line wasn’t necessarily directed at you. IITFT has a unique writing style, and I wouldn’t take anything personally.