Reply To: A posek can tell you who to marry

That’s a decision for the beis din to deliberate and decide on in individual cases. It isn’t a decision a coach potato can judge in the abstract. There are certainly cases where someone is inappropriately electing to not get married, and the relevant halachos previously mentioned including the power of beis din to act apply. And there are certainly cases where an individual is unable to marry, perhaps for the reason you mentioned or for a number of other reasons, and beis din will recognize that handicap and accept those limitations.