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It may be that halacha allows a Posek to do so. I’m way more interested in the individual who asks the Shaila.
What human being doesn’t want to exercise their bechira in choosing the individual who will be their life partner?
If you aren’t going to exercise it for such a momentous reason, which, aside from the enormous motivation of having an “ezer knegdo” and a partner in every endeavour; for which the Torah teaches “Al Kein yaazov Ish es Oviv V’es Imo”; which offers infinite opportunities for doing mitzvos; what will you exercise it for?
And if you don’t want to exercise it at all, what is the point of your existence as a Jew, or as a human? Making holy choices pleases Hashem. Making no choices makes you a robot, and clearly HKBH gave us our greatest ancestors and Avos to demonstrate that.