Curious as to why you bumped this, lightbrite.
In any case, my opinion is:
I would never want to marry the kind of guy who is too into looks. Obviously, he needs to be attracted to me, but I would want to marry someone who likes me because of my ruchnius qualities. 1) because that’s the real me and what I want my husband to appreciate about me. 2) because I don’t want to marry someone superficial.