mytake and observeteen: let’s have this conversation over in interesting random q – instead of hijacking this question, where everyone is in basic agreement anyways.
(yes! need to be attracted to who you marry.
and yes, boruch Hashem, guys find much more girls attractive than girls find girls attractive.
and luckily (since it seems like the girls around here are more picky in their idea of what’s good looking) more things attract a girl to a guy than just his looks.
just fyi: the non-good looking girls in my class were none of the older singles, they all got married before 21. whereas, the prettiest girl in my class is still not married.