Clearly you did not understand my point. I have NO PROBLEM w someone wanting to be attracted to their spouse. I have a problem with you constantly saying (not verbatim): this is our nature, its how men are created, we cant help it, woman cant understand…. That is where the cheeseburger comparison came in to play.
I do not say that about guys who want a 10. (I don’t mean size 10). I say that in response to women who think it is somehow illegitimate and improper for a guy to insist on “pretty” (according to his tastes).
Perhaps we do not disagree.
But, I still think we do.