I think it’s wrong if looks are the main focus. Will they turn down a good shidduch cuz the girl’s not “Miss Beauty”? Besides, I don’t think it’s very appropriate for boys (learning or not) to be so into looks. Ok, it’s fine if they want a good looking girl – that’s normal and the way it should be. But thinking abt it all day and debating whether this girl is prettier than the other…. I think it just doesn’t seem to fit into a torahdike way of life.
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