Ames – someone once came to R’ Breuer to discuss chasunah plans and wanted to incorporate some minhag (I think it was the kallah going around the chosson by the chupah) on the basis that – “but it is such a beautiful minhag. R’ Breuer replied (excuse my german – I can’t speak it at all) “Is a sherner minhag uber is nisht unsera minhag” Translation – it’s a beautiful minhag BUT it is not our minhag.
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