Avrum in MD & Future Potus – On behalf of Big Golem, Lightbrite, and myself , thanks so much for responding. We have been waiting for married people to respond (you are married, right?). Even though I normally hate arguments, I am happy to hear your different views of the topic, because it is something that I have been wondering about.
I have always heard that there is no such thing as love before marriage, and I have never understood that. There are people whom I love whom I am not married to. And we have a chiyuv to love EVERY Jew. So how is it possible to say that there is no love before marriage, and whatever you feel is based on nothing?