What is secular? Or chiloni?
When I looked up the definition of secular, it’s defined as someone who only believes in nature and what is measurable by the senses, what we see. Secular doesn’t believe in G-d or the Divine.
So is it wrong when I say that I am secular?
What would you call someone is not Charedi but totally believes and practices Ain Od Milvado, and observes some mitzvot that a solely secular person wouldn’t keep?
Is there a point where someone says I am no longer labeling myself as BT and am now charedi?
Or is it better to move to another community once you’ve grown enough and say that you’re charedi?