LB – I was half-joking. I would really love to meet with you, but I don’t think the moderators let people be in touch with each other.
It could be dangerous since neither of us knows that the other is what she claims to be.
In theory, I would think there could be safe ways to do it. Like you could give me references and I could “check you out” (and vice versa) and we could make sure to meet in a safe public place.
But I still don’t think the moderators will let. If they do, I think I would be fine with it if it were done the way I just suggested.