Mustangrider. you know you probably wouldn’t do what? go for the shidduch??
Ir Flabush,i remember a situation where my friend went into a shidduch where the boy didn’t want her, then a few months later a shadchan called with the same boy she went out with. i know it was a great boy, i heard so many amazing things, but the thought of knowing that i would hurt or even lose a friendship so dear, didn’t allow me to go on with the shidduch! i know it’s an entirely different scenario and your even good with this girl, but you have to understand that a friend means alot!!